(Based on a post to the ProviderTalk mailing list 18 Sept 2003.)
% dig mx <maindomain.com>where <maindomain.com> is what appears after the "@" sign in e-mail addresses.
% telnet <backup.server.com> 587 [Server responds with information about the server] ehlo vmailpros.com [Server responds that it is pleased to meet you, and suggests possible commands] mail from: <benlanford@gmail.com> [Server responds that the sender is OK] rcpt to: <realuser@maindomain.com> [Server responds that the recipient is OK] data [Server says to enter mail, ending with "." on a line by itself] This is a test message . {The dot at left should appear all by itself} [Server should respond that the message is accepted] quit
If the above steps work as described, then your backup server is set up correctly.